'move on' means to improve your life in some way.
for example, when you are facing with problems,
often people tells you to 'move on' 'life has to go on' 'keep moving on'.
you see, you really have to understand the meaning of 'move on' before admitting
to other people that "yeahhh i have moved on". because when you say
you move on but you actually not well that is just a silly jokes that you ever make.
so! let me tell you what is the meaning of move on.
move on means:
1. don't look back. jangan pandang belakang.
(perghh macam cerita hantu lahhh)
lu dah tutup buku, dah tak nak tengok lagi, dah tak nak fikir lagi dah
what ever happened in your past. enough is enough.
sometimes you feel like missing someone? and you wanted to send message.
or send email. or just 1 call. but no, don't do that. once you do that..
you'll be missing him or her or the place more. and you will never ever gonna move on.
2. you have stop talking about the issue.
ye lah, jangan diungkit ungkit lagi dah.
jangan cakap lagi dah pasal tu. jangan cerita lagi dah. jangan sebut pun dah.
tak payah ambil tahu pun. apa jadi pun its none of your business anymore.
3. you are happy with your life.
yeah, happy. tak kisah la, lu sorang ke..
lu ada kawan kawan ke, lu ada pasangan baru ke.. tempat kerja baru ke..tak kerja ke..
but you are appreciating your own life. if you can appreciate your life,
ok you have moved on. very good.
faham tak? maknanya, lu tak kisah lah macam mana hidup lu sekarang.
contoh, kalau lu putus cinta..and now lu kesunyian. tapi lu tak kisah pun
dengan kesunyian tu. lu happy je. so that means you have moved on.
contoh lagi, kalau lu kena buang kerja lah. dengan keadaan lu yang jobless
tapi lu tak susah hati pun. tetap ceria and happy sambil sambil cari kerja lain.
life must go on, remember. so it shows that you've moved on.
understand?
4. Avoid them.
Avoid the place or the people or whatever that stop you from moving forward.
Don't go to that place anymore. Or, don't see him or her again.
better stop all that. selagi masih nampak, selagi masih tengok macam mana nak move on.
find a solution. elak dari pergi tempat tu.
elak dari berjumpa dengan orang tu. bagaimana? itu lu fikir lah sendiri..!
hahaaha.
i don't know, maybe guna laluan lain. jangan berada di tempat dimana lu tau orang tu ada.
jangan pergi tempat tu kalau lu taknak ingat pasal tempat tu.
move! you have to move. pindah! cari kerja lain. whatever that can help you
to move on, just do it! you might not see the positive things now, but later
you will see. trust me.
5. Ignore what they said.
If you happened to hear or read whatever written or said from the people from
your past, just ignore what ever they said.
Don't be too sensitive. Are you sure they are talking about you?
Look, be smart. Jangan cepat terasa. They might be talking about somebody else,
but when you are the one who feel the pain, wowww...that's humiliating.
Did they mentioned your name? No. So, it means that you haven't move on.
Sebab, orang lain cakap dekat orang lain pun lu nak terasa. lu sendiri yang terasa.
padahal orang tak cakap pasal lu pun. hey, move on move on.
6. You don't feel anything.
ok, refer to No.5, let say you happened to hear or read anything. But none of
their words are hurting you. lu tak kisah pun, orang nak perli ke, nak kutuk ke,
nak kata apa ke. you just let them talk. you just smile and laugh.
sometimes, they are not even talking about you. so when you suddenly get
emotional, people will know that you haven't move on. sikit sikit nak terasa.
relax dude, if you have move on you won't give a damn for everything that they said.
7. Never show your emotions.
once you have move on, never bother about your sad feelings anymore.
dah tak payah nak fikir lagi dah. lu sedih ke, lu frust ke, lu sunyi ke, buat tak tahu je.
kalau ye pun lu rasa sunyi, tak payah la nak bagitau orang.
never ever let anybody know that you are lonely. you are sad. you are frustrated
by something. ermm no. never do that.
for example, amboihhhh banyak sunguh contoh.
let say, lu putus cinta lah.
don't you think you are so useless when you are telling people that you are lonely,
you being nice to people but the end of the day you are the most loneliest
people on earth, bla bla bla..that kind of things
while the other party is having fun, happy and so in love with her/his life or partner
and you are not on their mind at all. they don't even care whether you are
lonely or not. they don't even feel guilty. you know why, because they have move on.
so, show them that you move on too!
oh yeah. by uploading quotes in your social media..telling that you have move on..
bla..bla..bla...move on.. hahaha. funny. the fact is, you haven't move to anywhere
when you are still uploading quotes like:
(wait. i just type 'move on quote' at google search engine and few images appeared.
so i just pick whatever suitable. don't get offended if you ever used these quotes before,
itu mungkin kebetulan ok. i just random pick). muuuahh.
hahahahahaa... nobody wants to see you suffer. you are showing your 'suffer'
to people, you dumb ass. hahaha. seriously!!!!
you know why, people who move on..they don't even think of putting this kind
of quotes because they don't even have time to think about it.
because they have move on. when you put something like this,
it actually shows that you haven't move on and you are so damn suffering.
you know why, because people know that you are still thinking of all the things
that happened. so untuk sedapkan hati sendiri, you had to put all that quotes
to let people know that you are ok. you are strong. but no, actually you are not.
not at all. betul, this is very true. some people, they don't know. but people like me,
i know. hey i've been in human resource department berapa lama.
i know psychology a lil. wink wink wink wink.
owhhh, please don't do that. we have pride. we have value.
never show our weakness to other people. be strong.
it's ok to put quotes like that, but it become unreasonable after the issue has
ended several months or years already. pfuuhh.
8. Stop being sarcastic.
tak payah dok perli perli lah. amboihhh..mulut. macam longkang!
hahahhaa. sudah sudah lah. jahat tawwww. buat bagi orang sakit hati.
how do you expect people to move on when you yourself pun tak move on.
its a never ending story. so just shut the fu**up. ammboihhh jujuelopez carut.
auuwww...notty nottyyy.
actually, yang selalu jadi sarcastic ni jujuelopez lah. woowwweeee hahaha.
ok ok. ehh tak lah. sudah sudah.
9. Forget everything.
I would say this is actually the major point. because the key word to this 'move on' thing
is to forget everything related to the issue.
nak bagi contoh lagi boleh? contohnya, kawan pernah belikan lipstick dekat lu.
lepas tu gaduh, putus kawan.
so tak payah la lu nak cerita 'my friend used to buy this lipstick for me..'
hahaha gitu. sudah sudah la. kawan lu tak ingat pun dia beli lipstick tu kat lu.
contohhhh..
atau contoh lain, lu sibuk bagitau 'owhh i love my old place. i miss the place'
deiii dah pindah tu sudah lah. pindah je lah. kalau dah rindu sangat tempat lama,
pack baju pergi lah lu sorang sorang balik duduk sana. contohhhhh..
ok contoh lain, ehh..what ever lah. whether it is a song, or a place, or any conversation..
just forget about everything and don't ever mention about it again.
you know why, because when you mention about something that he or she used
to talk or give it to you...itu hanya akan membuktikan yang lu masih tak boleh nak lupa,
masih berada di tempat lama. masih tak 'move on'.
anyway, cakap pasal lagu teringat plak satu kisah nih.
just to share with you guys lah huhh...
hubbybear used to dedicate lagu "muara hati-siti nurhaliza and hafiz" to me.
ermm that would be somewhere in early February.
and he did email the song to his friend because
he has been telling his friend dari awal awal dulu...that he is trying to get his family back.
he still love his family bla..bla..bla.. and the song is actually about him and me.
maknanya, hubbybear was trying to explain how he felt about us.
and baru baru ni, somebody told us that budak tu uploaded the song in her facebook.
hahahahhahahaa...so, we were saying..
"jangan jangan dia ingat lagu tu untuk dia.."
nasib lu lah mr.hubbybear. kan orang dah salah faham...
lu sendiri yang cari penyakit. dah tau orang tu jenis tak faham bahasa melayu..
lain kali explain kasi detail lah.
'ini laguuu ahhh wa kasi sama wa punya bini wo. lu kasi dengar ahhh.
baru lu faham wa punya pelasaan sama bini wa.'
ok? cam gitu!!!
ehhh sorry keluar topik.
auuw...
kata move on..
hahahahahhahahaa...
so, cukup lah tu sikit sikit yeh. if you have all the points that i've mentioned,
well done!! congratulations. you have move on!
whatever happened in your life, is actually a test that Allah Ta Ala gave it to you.
Dia tak akan bagi sesuatu yang lu tak mampu nak handle.
apa yang lu hadapi adalah apa yang sesuai dengan diri masing masing.
kalau lu rasa dugaan tu sangat kuat dan sangat dasyat, percayalah bahawa
lu sendiri adalah orang yang sangat kuat dan sangat dasyat.
ok.
so, don't worry. be happy.
muah muah muah muah.
love you all.